ABOUT THIS LESSON:
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‍In this lesson, we dive into Arlin's dog days. Arlin tells the story of his first heart break all the way to his social enlightenment.
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Here's what we cover:‍‍

∞ The dog days of Arlin's early social life
∞ The social hierarchy and your archetype in the group that may be ingrained into your personality
∞ Arlin's journey in personal development specifically related to his social life and ability to communicate with anyone
∞ What is the Go game?
∞ What are approaches? What are "reference experiences"?
∞ Doing energy awareness exercises in the bathroom
∞ What are the 3 P's of social life mastery?

ASSIGNMENTS:
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A.) Start a "reference experience" document and start journalling each time you have a social interaction that you consider to be important social interactions. Ask yourself - What went well? What didn't go well? And how can I improve over time?

MINDSET INTEGRATION:

FIRST is becoming more and more compassionate and present to the moment in social interactions.

FIRST is becoming a master of listening, banter, and fulfilling people's e-purpose during social interactions.

FIRST is building a social circle ideal for the fulfillment of FIRST's North Star and e-purpose.

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ABOUT THIS LESSON:
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‍In this lesson, we discuss the social life Buddha, how looks don't matter, and how you have the power to create any social situation. Arlin shares the behind the scenes of how the Bali situation got set up.
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Here's what we cover:‍‍

∞ The Social Life Buddha who hangs out on yachts in Cabo
∞ Why looks don't matter
∞ When you take the time to design your social life mindset, your mindset designs your life in time.
∞ The North Start Mindset in relation to your social life
∞ Defining your social life, who is in it and where it is located
∞ Identifying who is already living the social life that you dream of
∞ Understanding Logistics
∞ Your ideal physical type might not live in your town
∞ Who you are the center of the universe and what this means

ASSIGNMENTS:
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A.) Within your master vision pro, take 2-4 hours to define all the people you want in your life. What roles are important? Within these roles, what do these people look like? What are there personalities ideally like? What are some characteristics that are 'unacceptable' to you?

B.) Next time you are in a social situation and meet someone you find attractive, remember to ask yourself the 4 logistical questions that absolutely matter. Who are you here with? What are you doing after this? Where are you staying/where in town do you live? What are you doing tomorrow?

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ABOUT THIS LESSON:
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‍In this lesson, we discuss how to sleep to achieve optimal results out of your life and business. We spend a third of our life during sleep so it is highly recommended that you follow the action steps listed below.
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Here's what we cover:‍‍

∞ What is the comfort vs attraction seesaw?
∞ Why investment is equal to attraction
∞ Masculine vs Feminine energy
∞ Investment and banter are the building blocks of relationships
∞ Why you should ask more questions and scan for things you have in common if you want to create more comfort during interactions
∞ What is banter? How does one engage in banter?
∞ Why one of the best ways to demonstrate that you are high status is by making fun of yourself
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ASSIGNMENTS:
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A.) Based on the social life and the people you want to attract which you have defined in the previous model, create a note on your phone that has a list of 10-50  of "qualifying questions". These questions set your intention of discovering whether the next person you interact with is going to fit in your social life design matrix. For example: If you are really into girls who are serious about their health and fitness, you could add a few questions about their lifestyle habits like, "how often do you go to the gym?" "what's the weirdest healthy food you eat?". When you ask targeted questions based around what you're actually looking for, it positions you in a place of power because you clearly have preferences. The person you are speaking to will feel that their answer actually matters to you.  For example, let's say the person you are speaking to says that they don't go to the gym that often. They'll sense that you 'do not approve' at least a little bit and therefore do not fit into your mold. By having this list of questions to ask based out of what you actually want in your life, you become much more attractive.

B.) In this same note on your phone, come up with a list of frames or banter lines you can resort to if the conversation starts to get boring. This applies more for flirtation than for professional relationships. As an example, you can set a frame of playfully completely misunderstand what the other person says and laugh it off. You can pretend for a moment that you are talking to a 5 year old. You can smile and say things such as, "you are really nice, but I don't think we'd ever make a good couple." or perhaps, "you're attractive but I'm not into blondes. That's okay, you can be great for my friend-zone". There is an entire list of banter lines attached in the Comfort Attraction Seesaw resource that you can copy and try out but this list is to be used with caution. Make sure the other person knows you're joking.

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ABOUT THIS LESSON:
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‍In this lesson, we dive into awakened relationships which begins with the relationship you cultivate with yourself. After simply watching the videos in this program your consciousness will have raised and you will already be more charismatic - you are slowly becoming a firefly in a dark room.
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Here's what we cover:‍‍

∞ What is the dinner party for one?
∞ Why the previous modules in this course, if taken seriously, will raise your social life experience because they raise your power
∞ How do you generate joy within?
∞ What is awakened eye contact?
∞ Why being present allows your conversations to flow so much more naturally
∞ How do I never run out of things to say?
∞ Why what you're saying does not matter as much as the place it is coming from
∞ The key to social situations is behind the tactics and power dynamics

ASSIGNMENTS:
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A.) Practice the 2 meditations in the resource section before going out and interacting with people or even before getting on the phone. Practice waking up 10-15 times per hour during social interactions and notice how people treat you or respond to you differently. By cultivating fulfillment within, you as the center of the universe will attract more and more people who are also awakened. You will also have the ability to wake up others around you simply through your energy.

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